I remember when I thought that every change in life had to be dramatic. I remember when I use to feel that if I didn’t feel like everything in my life wasn’t overturned that true change did not occur. But really, such an extreme viewpoint was b.s.
This is not to say that drastic and dramatic changes did not happen or aren’t necessary. Sometimes they are necessary and do happen. But they are not an indicator of huge growth/change. Sometimes those miniscule events and gradual transitions in life produce change and are, imo, good enough.